Caring but not caring.

 

In life we face so many uncertainities everyday. Few events in life appear just like rain during summer, it comes without giving us a small hint it just pours off and disappears for the rest of the day. Can we do something about it? No right, same wat there are soo many things that happen without our knowledge and some with our presence, we can't do anything about those uncertainities in life, cauz once it's over we cannot go back in time and change. Wishing it not to happen and being cautious is right but only wishing it not happen and thinking about the past, present future of the event is defenetly not right. When you know you can't do something about it, then why think about it?   Human mind plays a major role in our life, the more we think about something, the more it reminds us about other past uncertainities/negative events. 

Here I am referring to the uncertain events like sad moments, farewell, something we wished for didn't happen, bad day etc..

Thinking about it for a long period of time will give you nothing but will waste quality time of yours, which you could invest in something else which would enlighten the rest of your day.

I ain't denying the fact that you shouldn't feel sad or cry about the past or whatever happened, let things go in flow, if you wanna cry, just let it out, you wanna talk about it, call up a friend and let your feelings out and start it fresh. Cauz time is not going to show sympathy on anyone. Life has to move and so do you! Maybe there are more wonderful surprises ahead in life which might be waiting for you and you must be still in the waiting list while other's who have moved on early have got the confirmation! 

What are you waiting for? Somebody to come wipe your tears? or waiting for someone to spend their time in showing sympathy for you? This might be hard, but my friend let this get deep in your heart, nobody is going to waste their time for all this. You have to make your mind, you have to take care of yourself, when a beautiful mind of yours is waiting for you, why waste time in waiting for some, when you can be there for yourself. Unless you love your life, your life will not love you back. Trust me your body, your mind, your life is waiting for you and will bounce back all the love and care x2.

I believe we would only grow when we challenge ourselves and go beyond our comfort zones, that is when your true self will be exhibited. 

Ps: Whatever I have spoken I have personally implemented these in my life, I'm living a super amazing rollercoaster life :))

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