Fear of being Judged.

Does everyone fear being judged? Is it really necessary for every human to judge every living being? Is it right to judge? Do we have the right to judge? Whom can we judge? when to judge? when not to judge? How to Judge?

First of all, why should you be Judging the other human for being themselves? Judging others has both good and bad sides. It all depends on what basis you are judging and in which way are you delivering your sentences. There are many people out there including me who are scared of being judged, who becomes upset after hearing your comments. They think twice before making a decision and lose opportunities too. You might know the person well enough but do you really know what is going on in their mind?Here are a few sentences which can change your perspective towards the judgments you make every day in your life.

Do we have the right to Judge?

Nobody has the right to judge over other's personalities, dressing, lifestyle, or anything. But as a well wisher, we do have a responsibility towards them, we can correct them or we can tell them what is right or wrong. But the way you express your opinions matters the most. When we are angry at somebody or upset about something, we barely think we just assume and pass the judgments. Later, we realize and apologize but another person is hurt, instead if we take a moment to calm ourselves down and present our points in a polite, kind way it would be more effective. Not only, when you are angry but also when you feel the other person's behavior is disturbing then you can tell them, but kindly so that they understand. Let's comment less and compliment more!

Whom to judge? Whom not to Judge?

well, if we see we donot have the right to judge over anybody's personality or personal life, but as already said, if our opinions or suggestions can make the person's life better, then yes we can tell the things in the right way. But we cannot judge any random person on the internet for living their life as they want, because we have absolutely no idea what is going on in their lives. If you're loved one is in trouble or is going in the wrong direction, the correct them make them understand but don't judge them or criticize them. We all are learning. It might take sometime for them to understand, please be patient and be with them.

When not to Judge?

We as humans have a variety of tastes, choices in everything. It might be food, clothes anything. Let's take it as our own family, each member is different. Each member has their own tastes, their own likes and dislikes, right?  

The same way 8 billion people on earth have 8 billion opinions, choices, and different tastes over everything. Some like to get dressed well, some aren't very much into the dressing. Does that mean you can judge them over their clothing style? Not necessarily, clothing style or their lifestyle it's their wish on how they wish to live their life. If they are going on the wrong path, correct them, but don't criticize them. They might have their own problems or decisions to make which is what has made them take that decision. we never know what is going on in other's minds.Though I have told so many things above, I am not perfect and even I am learning and will try my best to act accordingly to what I said and I hope you all would do too. Let's not judge and let's make positive opinions and make this world a better place. 

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