National Girl child day

 

As today is noted as the "National girl child day" let's us celebrate the beauty and encourage, appreciate the empowerment of women in the society. 

I believe in the quote "YOU ARE WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE" people's idealogies, stories, life style can influence you to an extent. It cannot mould you in what you want to become. They cannot decide who you want to be. Its you who has the right to choose over your life. Be strong, be courageous , be understanding , be kind, be loving , be faithful towards yourself and every other living being around you!

It's your choice if you want to be on the winning side or on the compromising side. Fight for your wants, wishes and dreams dont let them bury inside. Face the challenges, dont run away from them. Girls hai toh kya hua? If you arent treated in a way you should be, question them right away rather than sobbing in the night. There are so many women out there making a mark for us and taking a stand for themselves and for others as well.

Believe in yourself. You are enough to fight any battle. Dont consider yourself weak or sensitive. Believe in your capabilities. Dont be in a dilemma. Live a life queen size! 

At the same time, It's totally alright if your interest is in cooking and household works, you can learn and do them better everyday. You can cook various dishes. Dont pressurize yourself at any point. Do what you like to. Do what your interest is in. Live a life to love what you do. You can be a normal girl but dont compromise just for being one. Be gentle on yourself.

Also, dont take the advantage of being a girl, don't use it in a wrong way which will make other's disrespect you. When we say we are equal to them, why do you want to get special attention when you aren't giving it. Why do you want to be treated like a queen when you aren't treating the other person like a king? We are all equal right? Then don't make silly excuses and defame sisterhood. Dont be rude on your friends, or dont behave like untouchables if they have lies in their hair, it's quite normal, if you have any ideas how you can reduce them, help them by telling it, and your beauty isnt decided on the basis of your makeup, dressing style, colour or the accent you use. It is decided on how you behave with other living beings, your character defines your inner beauty. 

To all the girls reading it out, listen to me Periods are normal,there is nothing to feel ashamed about and at the same time, dont just sit idle all day, do some excercise, practice yoga, read books, cook the food which you like, And love yourself each day a little more💕

The reason behind this day is to spread awareness about the problems faced by the women such as lack of sanitization, nutrition, primary education and to provide the basic facilities to the rural women like the sanitization facilities, education, proper nutrition.

 Most of us are fortunate enough to buy sanitary napkins every month, and many of our age girls aren't. Let's be a helping hand and help all the friends of us out there and bring a smile on their face. 

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